I’ve wanted to write about empathy for a long time. I wanted to have a child because I knew it allow me to do my part in making the world a better place by raising a thoughtful and empathetic human being.
In the past few years it just seems like empathy for others has gone out the window. Maybe I just read too many internet comments (I absolutely do, for sure), but I don’t understand why so many people are only concerned with themselves and their immediate bubble of society.
I cannot say that I am a perfect person and never fall into this trap myself. I, too, am flawed, and I work every day to better understand these flaws in order to help shape the world in a way that will make it better long term. Long term meaning after I’m gone, after we’re all gone.
I’m trying to write this without being political and without straight up saying that how people feel is wrong, because that isn’t my intent. My intent is only to make people take pause and try and see things from another human being’s point of view, and think about what they would do in their shoes.
I see so many people saying that everyone is too sensitive now, too “PC.” When did giving a shit about other people become a bad thing? It’s our responsibility to work together to make this world the best we can make it, for everyone. Not just for you, not just for your family and friends, and certainly not just for this one single country. None of that comes first, humanity comes first.
Maybe we don’t give doctors the ability to refuse to treat patients they don’t share religious beliefs with (that’s literally against your oath…), or deny refuge to immigrants seeking escape from violence and persecution in their home countries (what would you do if your family was in danger??), or think about future generations when we make decisions about our planet (that shit is dying), or etc. etc. this list could go on forever!!!
I want to be a better person, a better human being, in memory of Isaac. And I’d love it if everyone reading this would join me in doing so.